THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FRIENDS AND CROWDS

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THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FRIENDS AND CROWDS

People are important and yes we need people to survive, we need people to live but be careful not to keep crowds as friends all in the name of "I need others to survive". One obvious fact about life is that we all need ourselves.

2019 taught me the difference between crowds and friends. If the people you call your friends cannot add any value (no matter how little to your life  then you are keeping crowds and not friends.

You need to also know that the people you relate with, share ideas with or live with have great influence over your life and actions. You may end up joining the crowds if you keep relating with them. Identify your friends and hold them tight, never let them go but run fast as you can from crowds. Stay around people that motivate, encourage, celebrate and respect you.

It's very good to relate with others. It's important but everybody cannot be your friend because you are on a mission, so if you don't have the right people to assist or guide you, you may never arrive your destination.


One of most beautiful experience or joy you can share in life is having the right set of people around you. If they can't encourage you, if they can't motivate you, if they can't advise you, if they can't tell you the truth, if they can't assist when you need them then they are crowds not friends.


I need you to check quickly, think, and rethink, do you have friends or crowds around you. Be ready to let go of crowds and embrace friends in 2020.

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